Thursday, April 24, 2014

Friends, Trust and sacrifices

Hello Loggers, Lets talk about friends here.

Friends are the bastion of hope for many including myself. I've been an introvert my whole life, never exploring the things or people outside of my comfort zone. And because of this friendship is paramount for me because i base friendship on trust and solely on trust. The importance of friends to me is seconded by family. Meaning i will always put family ahead of friends but still friends are super important to me.

But recently i have to face a thing that is feared among friendships. This thing is called betrayal. I know its my choice to trust you but it is your choice to prove me wrong, still it is immoral to do so. The details of that will not be shared here as it contains names and situations known to many. But the important thing is that i keep all your secrets but why can you do the same? It's not that hard.

Sharing secrets is something that is common among friends and i too have some dirt on people that i care and i would rather die then disclose them to other people.

Friendship also requires a lot of sacrifices, mainly time. To spend time with a friend or i prefer to call them 'sahabat' is important. They might need some closure so with you just being there it might be enough, like what i went through and my Best KPM Friends came and console me on what ever it is i was facing and they let me know that i was not in it alone, i have them to look up to, a shoulder to cry on, and ear to listen and arms to grab me back. I bid you the most sincere of thank you's to you special people. The people who would look away at my differences and treated me as equal. I love you guys and i will never forget what you did to me.

I know i might be rambling here but to summarize things here, friendship is important, people find refuge there (like i have) and always respect a secret when you get one. I think that is all for now. Thank you for spending a few minutes here each time reading what my mind comes up with. Till next time loggers.


STRONG MIND, STRONG FAITH, STRONG HEART!

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