Hello again dear loggers!!
To emphasize the sweetness of life, i am here to say tht i am ready to forget all of this.. nr forgive but forget... im the one tht has been the target all this time and i think im tired... i need some rest and i cant see why i need it.. lol
i hate, but i like at the same time, im confused and i am.... i have nothing to say to it..
OH my i hate this soo much but my faith to Allah is there to curb me from ever saying the name... holding back? yes, i would have written her name ages ago but i tend not to, as i noe humiliation is bitter... i hate.. i hate.. i hate.. i hate...
Faith and mind?? im losing it..
Forgiveness is the first step to having a peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't forgive, the more you'd think about it the more you're gonna feel restless about this. You, my friend, are tripping on this matter a little too hard.
She has her faults,definitely, no doubt. But this has to end somewhere.
And you've gotta admit, she hasn't said anything for awhile now.
Don't worry, I'm not taking sides. I'd hate to do so.
Just think about it.
i see reason in ur word and i regret for committing such actions to her... i will ask for her forgiveness soon enough, but if she ask me before i find the courage to do so.. well i will grant it sincerely, going through this is quite tiresome.. thx nad for letting me see reason
ReplyDeleteFighting fire with fire normally results in both getting burned, you should make up with her dude.
ReplyDeleteThanks man :)
ReplyDeleteAnd if she doesn't grant it as easily (of which, might be a possibility) just let it go.
Coz really this is not worth anymore of your time. The both of you.
Let it slide then, I mean. Even so forgiveness is the first step right? As long as you apologize, you're job is done. Her granting the forgiveness or not is a different story altogether.
After that it's really between her and herself. And Allah s.w.t.
So even if you do and you know, she's still adamant on staying that way, just know that you have done your part and you don't need to fret about it anymore. Coz you're liberated of this burden :)
fighting fire with fire is normal..bt if u aren't prepare to fight fire with a flame..than u're toast..well..that is if u're fight fire with a bread....wait...i lost my point...*read back*..oh..ok ...erm...
ReplyDeletewen a colony sends a soldier as a messenger to another colony..n the colony finds it as a threat..u dunt just send ur whole batallion into the battlefield..u were supposed to send ur spies to investigates..wen they've a confirmation..then u'll send ur army..n if u were to get into a war..always study ur enemies..always hav a back up plan..construct strategies on ways to attack..find out if the enemies hav another army that backs them up..n wen ur enemy makes fun of ur batallion..dont get mad..thats what the enemies want..
evn Bruce Lee said.."if u hav the option of fighting n not fighting..be smart n always choose to not to fight no matter wat the enemy do to u"..yea it may seems lke a coward's move..bt its da smartest move in the battlefield..unless ur enemy really wants to fight wif u..then u wud hav no choice..if necessary u cn evn use Sun Tzu's 13 chapter..evn if its juz a mouth war..Sun Tzu's 13 chapter..mmg BERKESAN..
well Emi, forgiving seems like the best of ways... no more of this shouldgo on.. but if it ever happens again, well we just have to be better..
ReplyDeleteTo Elethor, if ur readin this well i noe forgiving is for pussies but well it might be the best... lol?
soo as for nw im being passive and all, and i need to forgive or ask for it. yess