Promises and Neglect

Again i see people in my life going on making promises with sweet word and stuff just to neglect it... WHY does this happen??? To me promises are a great deal, u breat it and thts the end of us man, friendship and all...

But my real topic here is abt relationships... Usually the guys go and make sweet promises (im nt saying tht only guys make them) and then they just turn their backs on it giving fussy excuses, like im BZ, too much work, im stressed, and all the things u can imagine, yes i noe some of u have gone through this and i for one understand...

Ok guys, most of the time u say and promises tht u would make it up for ur absence in the girls life then when she asks u to meet them u go and say "oh sry la syg im BZ", then the girl asks "bile boleh jumpe??" the guy goes "I BZ skang, Later...".....

Now hw would u feel guys if u were in the girls shoes?? she hopes tht u would fulfill ur words and try to comfort her.... And my brothers lying is the worst things u can do to ur partner... its no joke once they find tht u lie to them, they will never trust u fully again.... Solving this "Promises and Neglect" Problem is nt easy as u have to change, this i noe as guys have an extremely difficult EGO to overcome..

Lets put this aside and for once try to think whts best for ur relationship... never think abt urself in a relationship... it will hurt the both of u when it does and it hurts me to see it all happen, yes there are ups and downs but y stop trying??

Rules of relatioon ship is nt only for fun, its for the love, attention (even a minor one would do), support, and help it gives.... soo if u think ur emotions are much more important than ur partner, u are nt fit for a relationship...

As for nw im done saying wht i think is worth saying...
STRONG FAITH, STRONG MIND